10 Ways to Spice up Your Sex Life!

10 Ways to Spice up Your Sex Life!
Does your sex life leave a lot to be (yawn) desired? Is it just OK or are you lucky enough to say that it’s explosive and you need no help whatsoever?

Your sex life is one of the most important things to keep ignited in order to fuel the intimacy between you and your significant other. After the honeymoon is over, life gets in the way and it is sometimes easier to push this part of life to the side. Either way, we’ve put together a list of enticing ways to put the words hot, sizzling and steamy into the description of your love life.

Get ready to put your embarrassment or shyness aside ladies, and just dive right in (literally).

Lamb in the morning, tiger at night. Start the kissing, touching and caressing in the morning enough to get to the point where the horizontal mambo is definitely something wanted immediately. Knowing that you have to get up, go to work or get the kids ready, off you both go yearning for this moment all day long. At night, when the time is right, pounce!

Love notes. Yes, these still work. Get out your pen and paper (if you still have them in this high-tech digital world), write something steamy and put it in your loved one’s coat pocket, lunch bag or briefcase. Something uber-sexy can sure set the tone for his day, and of course make it go by at a snail’s pace. Attach a sexy picture to it too (it doesn’t have to show, but it should tell). He’ll be riled up all day, and by the time he gets home, he’ll be ready to explode.

Texting and E-mailing. Unlike the love note, here’s where some playful interaction comes in. Feel free to include pictures or even videos with the sexy lingo. Don’t forget to make sure that you have the right phone number or e-mail address before you hit send (you don’t want Grandma getting a picture of you licking your finger provocatively).

Toys. Introducing a third party takes some pressure off, has the potential of introducing some new stimulating feelings yet also excites your partner by seeing you get all hot and bothered – leading to even more of a thrilling experience.

Don’t sweat the small stuff. The phone is ringing, laundry needs to be folded, the kitchen needs to be mopped and you have even more items on your to-do list that you want to get done. But if the opportune moment presents itself, jump on it. Not to say that you should neglect your kids that need to be fed or your dog that needs to be taken for a walk. But adding spontaneity to your sex life solidifies a healthy bond.

Tricks aren’t just for kids. Instead of doing the same old moves, consider introducing some new ones. Do some research to see what might appeal to both of you and experiment. Kama Sutra anyone? Why not? You only live once! If one way doesn’t work for the both of you, try another. You may end up discovering (and creating) a new way of having fun.

Date nights. Don’t forget. You’re still dating, and hopefully, always will be. Do something you both enjoy by having a romantic evening or day together which will get those natural endorphins flowing – this creates the perfect set up for a steamy night of passion.

Kiss. You don’t have to stick your tongues down each others’ throats, but by kissing for at least 10 seconds at least once a day, you are showing each other that you’re still in love. Kissing can help you relax, express love, boost your immune system, improve self-esteem, manage stress and stimulate your brain. Kiss - don’t peck.

Re-discover each other. Go back to the feelings of when you first met. Remember those fireworks? What used to get you all fired up? Hone in on those feelings that are still there, just hidden.

Take him (and you) by surprise. Flash him or conveniently forget to wear panties underneath your skirt and tell him when you’re out in public. These small things can lead to a whole lot of excitement later on.